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Motivation Monday: What’s Your Matrix
“This is your last chance. After this, there is no turning back. You take the blue pill – the story ends, you wake up in your bed and believe whatever you want to believe. You take the red pill – you stay in Wonderland and I show you how deep the rabbit-hole goes.” Morpheus, The Matrix
Who wants to miss opportunities?
As you think back about all the people you know and the experiences you've had with them, can you objectively say you said what you wanted to say with the conviction and truth that lies in your heart. Often times people say to me, "I wish I had said ___. I didn't come to me until later." Whether they are referring to a friend, colleague or potential client, there's something they weren't really aware of in the moment and missed it. Most often, it's because they were feeling emotional at the moment and that clouded their focus and colored their words.
There are a number of reasons I hear from people as to why they didn't say what was on their mind......
They didn't want to offend the other person
They felt embarrassed to call out the other person
They let the other person overpower the conversation
All of which left them feeling ashamed, out of control, pissed off and wanting a do-over. You don't always get to have that conversation again. Where are you holding back - why?? Are you part of this recap... you'd rather lose money, put yourself last, compromise your integrity and give up your power - for the sake of someone else. To be polite? Really?!
When you are coming from integrity, intention and flow, your words will resonate with the intention of delivery. There isn't any room for misinterpretation. If there is, you're speaking with the wrong person.
Flex Your Power
When you've been influenced by so much for such a long time, it takes a little bit of effort to flex your power muscles. Your power muscles are the muscles that are underused due to lack of confidence, esteem or value. When you haven't been used to asserting yourself in a certain way - you've always held back, just a little. Wouldn't you like to always feel good about what you say - to be in flow without missing a beat.
What's your Matrix? Share your comment in the section below
Here are 3 tips for you to strengthen your Matrix
1. Trü Confession ...... sometimes you have to just let it all go. All the things you haven't admitted to yourself - that have been swimming in your thoughts, in your body and raging against your heart. It's time to confess. I have a Tru Confession session that will get you past any guilt, fear or shame you have in speaking up for yourself. Interested? Contact me now
2. Choose Your Pill ....... make a decision - and stick with it. You may need someone to objectively make the decision and hold you accountable to it. A coach is your greatest ally.... it's time for you to Breakthrough.
3. Stay Out Of The Rabbit Hole ..... discover how deep you can go to maximize your potential and live in possibility
BREAKTHROUGH Say YES! to Your Life expand into more and have a BIG breakthrough. Know who you are, how you want to live and let your energy get stronger with that alignment every day. It takes objectivity to help you with a new perspective. I am phenomenal at offering objectivity with new perspectives - 'connecting the dots.' Join me for your breakthrough session and get another step closer to living life on your terms..... with clarity, confidence and strength. Sign up below for your Breakthrough Session. Get the 'AHA' or mini breakthrough you need to move forward. If we click, we'll discuss the ways you can move forward with me.
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